You’re not BARBIE and he’s not KEN!

You’re not BARBIE and he’s not KEN! Sometimes women mistakenly believe there is an ideal female image, and they should clone themselves to look like her. Did you play with Barbie dolls when you were young? You may subconsciously believe that the ideal woman has a tiny waist and proportionately over-sized boobs, all supported by …

Is COMPATIBILITY the Key to Happy Relationships?

Is compatibility the key to Happy Relationships? The concept of compatibility (matching interests) is used by most online dating websites, to find an ideal partner. This assumption, of compatibility as the relationship key, is also used by most matchmakers. They attempt to match interests, religion, height, hobbies, culture, and age, etc. There is no doubt …

When You Really Love Yourself, Magic Happens

Frankly, I find this saying really annoying, because, of course, everybody would love themselves…if they knew how! So, why don’t we know how? Because, early in our childhood we received numerous messages that we weren’t okay. Not perfect enough, or well behaved, or good looking, or not smart, or whatever. Back then we were too …